What is the best to pay for credit card payment after husband charged and left ?
mema asked:
I have good credit now. I worked hard to get it. My husband had none when we married. So I added him. Big mistake. He is gone now. I can not pay everything. How can I work with credit co. to pay and save my credit. It takes everything I make to pay my house payment, car payment and insurance, food and gas. I also have a 2 year old, so I have child care. He is suppose to pay child support, but has not, yet. He gets off scott free. All the cards are in my name and he is a user. So I have to pay them. I want to pay them and keep my credit good, but I can’t do it right now. Is there some way credit card co. will work with me without destroying my credit? My friends say if I don’t pay, that your credit is bad for only 7 years. Won’t my credit be good if I continue to pay my house payment and car payment?
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I have good credit now. I worked hard to get it. My husband had none when we married. So I added him. Big mistake. He is gone now. I can not pay everything. How can I work with credit co. to pay and save my credit. It takes everything I make to pay my house payment, car payment and insurance, food and gas. I also have a 2 year old, so I have child care. He is suppose to pay child support, but has not, yet. He gets off scott free. All the cards are in my name and he is a user. So I have to pay them. I want to pay them and keep my credit good, but I can’t do it right now. Is there some way credit card co. will work with me without destroying my credit? My friends say if I don’t pay, that your credit is bad for only 7 years. Won’t my credit be good if I continue to pay my house payment and car payment?
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January 30th, 2010 at 10:22 pm
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find forum and talk to people there or credit co web site there forum good luck hope this helps
January 31st, 2010 at 12:48 am
Get in touch with the credit card company. There must be a way to stop the nonsense: there must be a way to remove him from your account. Perhaps they can put an end to that card and issue you a new number. Whatever. If they don’t cooperate, contact your local Better Business Bureau or legal aid, otherwise he’ll keep adding and you’ll keep paying.
February 3rd, 2010 at 2:35 am
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